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Center for Family Life and Recovery, Inc. Calls for Amethyst Award Nominations

Center for Family Life and Recovery, Inc. Calls for Amethyst Award Nominations

Utica, New York (January 2022) – Center for Family Life and Recovery, Inc. is seeking nominations for 2022 Amethyst Awards. The Amethyst Award is given to a member of our community who has helped others by inspiring them with the message of hope and recovery in the fields of mental health and chemical dependency, as well as treatment and prevention. The Amethyst Award was inspired by the Amethyst stone where the purplish and reddish colors have represented the chastening and purifying effects of suffering. The Amethyst stone has become a symbol of recovery. Anyone in the community can be awarded the Amethyst Award.

Nominations can be submitted on CFLR, Inc.’s website, HERE. Nominations will be accepted through February 28, 2022.  The Amethyst Award will be presented at Center for Family Life and Recovery’s 2022 April Awareness Breakfast, “Celebrating CommUNITY Connections,” to be held on April 26th at Hart’s Hill Inn, in Whitesboro.  Ticket information is available on CFLR’s website and by calling the office.

Center for Family Life and Recovery, Inc. is proud to be a leader in creating a world where people have the power to achieve and celebrate recovery. CFLR supports individuals and families struggling with addiction, mental health, and behavioral issues by inspiring hope, providing help, promoting wellness, and transforming lives.

Posted by Cassandra Sheets in CFLR In Action, News

Our Clinical and EAP Team!

Bonnie Zweifel, LMSW

Over forty years of experience assisting individuals to deal with psychological, interpersonal, psychiatric, family and/or behavioral problems. Over thirty years of experience of providing individual, couple, family, and group counseling. Has provided specialized services to adults and teens – male and female- who have sexually offended and to children who have sexualized behavioral problems. Over fifteen years of providing supervision to MSW interns from a variety of graduate schools. Eleven years of working at the YWCA Rape Crisis Services in various roles such as a victim advocate, trainer, program coordinator and program director. 2004 Recipient of the Marilyn Etcheverry Award for Excellence. 2016 Recipient of the CFLR Advocacy Award. One of her greatest joys is thinking that she has helped people be more the people they want to be.

Hello! I’m Nadine Zesky, I was born and raised in the Syracuse area and I am thrilled to be the new Part Time EAP Coordinator for the Syracuse area.

I spent 25 years in law enforcement, during that time I completed my Bachelor’s Degree in Human Services from Empire State College. My career was focused on how I best could serve my community. I spent the last half of my career as a family service officer, which allowed me to liaison with schools, service organizations and community advocates. I wanted to continue to serve my community after I retired so I decided to run for a position on my local school board. I was elected and served as a member for eight years. This solidified my knowledge that being involved in my community is my passion.

I have only been with CFLR for a short time and I have already learned so much. I love connecting people with services that will help them succeed and be the best they can be and this job is allowing me to do that!

I am married with two beautiful daughters and have the best dog ever! In my spare time I love to walk and spend time outdoors.

I am grateful for the opportunity CFLR has provided to me, allowing me to continue to serve my community. I look forward to growing with CFLR.

Crystal Faria joined the CFLR family in 2019 in the EAP department. She is the EAP coordinator for the Utica office. She has worked in the non-profit sector off and on for most of her career. Working for and within the community is very important to her. One of the things which drew her to working at CFLR is the agencies values of compassion, respect, learning and fun (at CFLR Crystal is known for her positive attitude, creativity and her vast array of obscure trivia so the fun part was significant). She appreciates CFLR’s the supportive atmosphere for personal and professional growth. This support was so welcomed, as Crystal recently earned her CASAC-T and certifications in Meditation, Mindfulness and Life Coaching.

When she is not at work Crystal is currently obsessed with learning the skills of needlepoint and cross stitch. During COVID she has discovered the joys of composting and spending ever day with her two youngest children, who she periodically forgets to feed.

Meet Kelly Wolfe, MSW - Virtual EAP Counselor!

Kelly’s graduate internship was with CFLR, so she is familiar with CFLR and the EAP! We warmly welcome her back. She has been in human services for over 17 years serving the community in a number of roles. She started her career working with victims of interpersonal violence as a community educator and running support groups. Kelly has also worked with at risk youth in several capacities and worked as a social worker in an adult home. She has a passion for helping people overcome their challenges and empowering them to better their lives. Her volunteer work includes working with run away and homeless youth, providing palliative care and fostering kittens and cats. She is currently working in animal welfare. Her other hobbies include gardening (mostly digging the in dirt), hiking and kayaking.

.Nai-Raysia Williams is a Binghamton university graduate of 2020 and a Licensed Master Social Worker. Nai-Raysia has recently joined the Center For Family Life and Recovery team as an EAP Counselor.  

 

Nai-Raysia was born and raised in Syracuse, NY. She finds enjoyment by spending time with family and her new Mal-Shi puppy Sky Rosé. Nai-Raysia's favorite holiday is Christmas, as this is the time family comes together and celebrates a year of accomplishments and gratitude. Nai-Raysia is a huge fan of traveling. She is happy to share stories of her traveling experiences and encourages other recommendations as well. 

 

Nai-Raysia has always been passionate about making connections with new people and helping others reach their full potential. With reference to the famous quote by William Butler Yeats, “There are no strangers here; only friends you haven't met”, Nai-Raysia has used this as a motivating factor to expand her personal and professional growth in the social work field. Nai-Raysia values diversity and encourages mutual learning relationships with clients, as she believes "there is always something to learn from someone else". 

Lynne McHugh has been practicing as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2003 after receiving her Masters’ degree from Springfield College.  Since July 2021 she has provided EAP, Critical Incident Stress Management and runs groups for First Responders and Frontline Workers coping with Pandemic Fatigue.  Lynne has practiced in a variety of settings including outpatient mental healthcare in clinical settings, homebased work through PINS Diversion services and providing oversight of Domestic Violence programming and Safe Dwelling, in addition to other endeavors.   Lynne also maintains a private practice in Oneida, NY.

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action

Hello from our Prevention Department!

Cortney Kleek - Education MVCC Human Services and Chemical Dependency Dual Major.  Following college, I was offered the Prevention Specialist position at CFLR in March of 2019, in 11 months’ time I was promoted to Senior Prevention Specialist (my current position).  I have a passion for working with youth who have suffered traumatic experiences and addiction, which is why I love doing prevention programming for the schools and community.  In my free time, I enjoy hanging around family and friends.  I look forward to growing my career in the field and furthering my education.

My name is Caryn Schweinsberg and I am a Prevention Specialist at Center for Family Life Recovery. I am originally from Boonville, NY but graduated from Oriskany Jr. Sr. High School. I continued my education at SUNY Polytechnic Institute where I received a Bachelor’s Degree in Community and Behavioral Health. Before completing my education, I had the opportunity to gain experience in the areas of direct support, administration and grant writing. Soon after graduating, I was offered the Prevention Specialist position with CFLR. I have a great love for the field of psychology and for contributing in the community and for that reason, I am honored to begin my journey with the agency. I am grateful most for the wonderful team I have the privilege of collaborating with and for the opportunity to make a difference in an ever-changing world. In my free time, I enjoy being around close friends and family especially my husband our dog and two cats.

Joe Passalacqua - Ed. MVCC and Utica college, work history, started at Neighborhood Center as a Case Manager – 2 years.  Went on to Oneida Co. Dept of Mental Health, - 5 years.  Mohawk Valley Psych. Center Intensive Case Manager – 30 years retired.  Started teaching the Impaired driving program for the Council on Alcoholism and Addiction in the mid 80s – present.  That agency rolled into our current agency CFLR.  After retirement I assumed the roll of coodinator for the IDP program.  I enjoy spending time with family and friends, and look forward to each season of Syracuse football.

My name is Ashley Miller.  I am 26 years old.  I joined the prevention team in July '21 and I oversee our Compeer program.  I live in Little Falls with my fiancé, Greg, and my spoiled rotten dog, Timber.  I am a dietetics and nutrition major at Mohawk Valley Community College.  In my free time, I enjoy listening to music, trying new recipes, running, and walking, watching football, and spending time with my family.  Joining CFLR team and running the Compeer program is allowing me to extend a hand and help those who are struggling with their mental health.  This is a cause near and dear to my heart as I have struggled with my own mental health since I was a teenager.  I was fortune enough to receive the help and treatments I needed throughout the years and now my goal is to help those not as fortunate get themselves on the path toward freedom from their mental health disorders."

David Garrett
Bachelors - SUNY Geneseo
Masters - Bowling Green State University, Ohio

Worked in universities for forty years.  Bowling Green, University of Wisconsin, SUNY Cortland, Wesley College, Delaware, SUNYIT (SUNY Polytechnic Institute) for the last 34 years.  Worked in Student Affairs as Director of Residence Life, Assistant Dean of Students, Director of Orientation, Director of Student Life, Director of Counseling, and Director of International Student Services.
Outside activities: American Pheasant and Waterfowl Association, Western New York Pheasant and Waterfowl Society, Adirondack Avicultural Society, Barneveld Horsemen's Association, National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's - Ride for Missing Children and Community Outreach Speaker.

 

Hello!  My name is Fran Esposito and I joined the Center for Family Life and Recovery (CFLR) as a Prevention Service Coordinator in February 2021. From my previous service term with AmeriCorps, I am bringing experience in and passion for working within the community, especially with community members who face struggles with mental health, addiction, and housing insecurities. I graduated from the University of Albany in Summer of 2020 with a degree in Political Science.

I am very passionate about helping to inspire hope within our community and building lasting, meaningful connections. I am so excited for the opportunity to grow my passions here at CFLR and to create lasting bonds with everyone!

HI! My name is Janet Casadei and I am a Peer Advocate with Family Treatment Court. Helping people has been my lifelong journey. My education inside the classroom is in Criminal Justice, Psychology, and Substance Dependency. I have been working in these fields for the past 20 years. Experiencing substance dependence and mental health struggles in my own life and in my family has helped me gain knowledge and compassion for others with the same challenges. My life is full of kayak trips, pug hugs, and kitty antics. Being in nature is my happy place and a great way to engage in self-care. I hope to help others discover their passions and find the path to their best life!

Hello everyone, my name is Erica Baslow! I joined Center for Family Life and Recovery (CFLR) as a Family Prevention Specialist in November 2021. I graduated from Oriskany Jr./Sr. High School and MVCC for Human Services. I have previous experience teaching Special Education and working with children with developmental disabilities, between my work experience and lived experience, I bring passion and devotion to my community. I am extremely dedicated to helping my community with substance abuse disorders, LGBTQ services and offering hope to caregivers! I am so excited to take my creativity and let it soar here at CFLR. I look forward to making connections and inspiring.

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Meet our PINS Department!

Hello, my name is Alexis Dekanek and I am one of the Family Support Workers for the PINS unit in Herkimer, NY. I joined CFLR’s family in June of 2020 and I could not be happier. I graduated in 2019 with my Bachelors in Criminal Justice and with a Minor in Psychology focusing on adolescent development. Once I graduated, I worked for Empowered Pathways in Utica, NY where I got certified in basic mediation. In that role, I worked closely with Oneida County Family Court for a little over a year until I was offered this position as a FSW. When I am not working, I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, playing with my dogs, and target practicing to prepare for the upcoming hunting season!

Jennifer Morey received her Associate in Applied Science degree, Human Services at Mohawk Valley Community College (MVCC). She is currently working towards her Bachelor of Social Work degree with Keuka College. Jennifer’s previous work experience includes a position as Student Assistant at MVCC in Utica, New York. In addition to serving as Program Assistant with the Center for Family Life and Recovery, Herkimer PINS Diversion unit, she also works as a Professional Tutor of Human Services with MVCC. When she is not working, she enjoys reading, walking track, and listening to music.

 

Hello Everyone! My name is Heidi Gates. I enjoy working with families and youth of all ages. Outside of work I enjoy spending time with my family and participating in activities such as four wheeling, snowmobiling, fishing, camping, classic car shows, scrapbooking, and more. I also work part time/as needed on a local dairy farm and maple syrup business.
In 2014, I received my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology after changing my major several times to find something I was truly interested in. I then returned to school to complete my Master’s Degree in Education in School Counseling.
My career began when I was hired by Rehabilitation Support Services in Schoharie County, working as a Full Time Residence Counselor in a home for people experiencing mental illness and substance abuse, age 18 and over. Here I really learned my passion was to help others dealing with mental illness and who have had traumatic experiences throughout their lives. During my time here, I was attending school online Full Time working on my Masters’ in Education in School Counseling. When my classes were completed I spent the hours of the school day working on my internship and then working 3:00pm-11:00pm at Rehabilitation Support Services. My weekends were spent working or completing school work. This made for long days, but I enjoyed every minutes of my time, whether it was working with the children at the school level or adults within the residence home.
After receiving my Master’s Degree, I was able to land myself a job working Full Time as a Family Specialist for Berkshire Farm Center and Services for Youth, in Schoharie County. Here I was able to work with teenagers and their families who were in need of family support due to traumatic experiences resulting in mental illness, substance abuse, and behavioral problems. I learned a lot about how the school systems work as well as the county interactions and criminal justice system. Everything I learned here, prepared me to accept the position at CFLR where I became a PINS Counselor working for their PINS Unit in Herkimer County.

My name is Sandy Seaman, and I am the Sr. Family Support Worker with the PINS Diversion Program. I have worked for CFLR for 6 years now, and have had three positions within the agency: Impact Program Coordinator, Individual and Family Counselor, and my current position. I have a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work, a Master’s degree in Forensic Psychology, and still need to complete my Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I have 3 grown children. 2 of whom are currently in college. My free time is spent doing renovations on the house I bought 2 years ago, doing a variety of crafts, and hanging out with my kids. Our family has several pets. We have 3 dogs; a Standard Poodle named Ruby, a Morkie named Whomper, and a Newfoundland named Mazikeen Morningstar (Maze for short). We also have 2 cats; Rowena and Crowley. My daughter recently got 2 baby rats; Espresso and Latte. I’m planning on getting Axolotls again in the near future. The thing I am proudest of is my 20+ years in dog rescue; having served on the board of a rescue, and organized transports for dogs from kill shelters to rescues all over the US.

Hi! I’m Cami Allen and I’m a newly hired family support worker. I received my BA in psychology in 2020 and I’m very passionate about preventative work. I love to cook, listen to crime podcasts, drink coffee, and hangout with friends. I’m so excited to be a part of the CFLR team!

Hi, my name is Casey McBee and I am the Family Peer Advocate for CFLR.  I work at the Herkimer office out of the DSS building.  I have been working here for just over 2 months and I love what I do.  This is my first time working in this field and I couldn’t be happier to be here doing what we all do.  In my off time I enjoy spending time with my wife and kids hiking, biking, swimming, camping ect.

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action

A little something from our Recovery Department :)

Hello everyone!  My name is Katie Burns and I’m a CRPA-P in the Recovery Department here at CFLR.  It is my own personal mission to strengthen and maintain my community connections in the recovery world and man does this profession help me show case that!!  I am a single mommy to a funny, smart, active 8 year old who I can hardly keep up with but I sure do try!  Since being on my recovery journey I have met the most amazing people who have really helped enhance my new way of life.  But, it’s not always serious.  I’m the class clown.  I enjoy being the reason someone laugh’s today.  I love spontaneous hiking trips, and beach days, really anything outdoors and with my family and friends!  I strive to do better for myself and my son every single day.

My name is Robert Green I actively used for over twenty years of my life.  I lost both of my parents in my teenage years.  I never dealt with my grief correctly with no goals, accomplishments, or achievements I stayed in the misery of my addiction.  Until about almost seven years ago when I decided to seek outpatient treatment.  Which then lead to inpatient treatment.  Then I decided to become a Peer Advocate.  I’ve been enjoying life again with my family and newfound friends.  I previously worked at a local outpatient substance use disorder facility for two and a half years.  I’ve found a love for air plants or Tillandsia, keep walking the canal trails, and focus on eating healthy.  Remember RECOVERY is an ongoing process!  

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action