CFLR In Action

Meet our PINS Department!

Hello, my name is Alexis Dekanek and I am one of the Family Support Workers for the PINS unit in Herkimer, NY. I joined CFLR’s family in June of 2020 and I could not be happier. I graduated in 2019 with my Bachelors in Criminal Justice and with a Minor in Psychology focusing on adolescent development. Once I graduated, I worked for Empowered Pathways in Utica, NY where I got certified in basic mediation. In that role, I worked closely with Oneida County Family Court for a little over a year until I was offered this position as a FSW. When I am not working, I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, playing with my dogs, and target practicing to prepare for the upcoming hunting season!

Jennifer Morey received her Associate in Applied Science degree, Human Services at Mohawk Valley Community College (MVCC). She is currently working towards her Bachelor of Social Work degree with Keuka College. Jennifer’s previous work experience includes a position as Student Assistant at MVCC in Utica, New York. In addition to serving as Program Assistant with the Center for Family Life and Recovery, Herkimer PINS Diversion unit, she also works as a Professional Tutor of Human Services with MVCC. When she is not working, she enjoys reading, walking track, and listening to music.

 

Hello Everyone! My name is Heidi Gates. I enjoy working with families and youth of all ages. Outside of work I enjoy spending time with my family and participating in activities such as four wheeling, snowmobiling, fishing, camping, classic car shows, scrapbooking, and more. I also work part time/as needed on a local dairy farm and maple syrup business.
In 2014, I received my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology after changing my major several times to find something I was truly interested in. I then returned to school to complete my Master’s Degree in Education in School Counseling.
My career began when I was hired by Rehabilitation Support Services in Schoharie County, working as a Full Time Residence Counselor in a home for people experiencing mental illness and substance abuse, age 18 and over. Here I really learned my passion was to help others dealing with mental illness and who have had traumatic experiences throughout their lives. During my time here, I was attending school online Full Time working on my Masters’ in Education in School Counseling. When my classes were completed I spent the hours of the school day working on my internship and then working 3:00pm-11:00pm at Rehabilitation Support Services. My weekends were spent working or completing school work. This made for long days, but I enjoyed every minutes of my time, whether it was working with the children at the school level or adults within the residence home.
After receiving my Master’s Degree, I was able to land myself a job working Full Time as a Family Specialist for Berkshire Farm Center and Services for Youth, in Schoharie County. Here I was able to work with teenagers and their families who were in need of family support due to traumatic experiences resulting in mental illness, substance abuse, and behavioral problems. I learned a lot about how the school systems work as well as the county interactions and criminal justice system. Everything I learned here, prepared me to accept the position at CFLR where I became a PINS Counselor working for their PINS Unit in Herkimer County.

My name is Sandy Seaman, and I am the Sr. Family Support Worker with the PINS Diversion Program. I have worked for CFLR for 6 years now, and have had three positions within the agency: Impact Program Coordinator, Individual and Family Counselor, and my current position. I have a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work, a Master’s degree in Forensic Psychology, and still need to complete my Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I have 3 grown children. 2 of whom are currently in college. My free time is spent doing renovations on the house I bought 2 years ago, doing a variety of crafts, and hanging out with my kids. Our family has several pets. We have 3 dogs; a Standard Poodle named Ruby, a Morkie named Whomper, and a Newfoundland named Mazikeen Morningstar (Maze for short). We also have 2 cats; Rowena and Crowley. My daughter recently got 2 baby rats; Espresso and Latte. I’m planning on getting Axolotls again in the near future. The thing I am proudest of is my 20+ years in dog rescue; having served on the board of a rescue, and organized transports for dogs from kill shelters to rescues all over the US.

Hi! I’m Cami Allen and I’m a newly hired family support worker. I received my BA in psychology in 2020 and I’m very passionate about preventative work. I love to cook, listen to crime podcasts, drink coffee, and hangout with friends. I’m so excited to be a part of the CFLR team!

Hi, my name is Casey McBee and I am the Family Peer Advocate for CFLR.  I work at the Herkimer office out of the DSS building.  I have been working here for just over 2 months and I love what I do.  This is my first time working in this field and I couldn’t be happier to be here doing what we all do.  In my off time I enjoy spending time with my wife and kids hiking, biking, swimming, camping ect.

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action

A little something from our Recovery Department :)

Hello everyone!  My name is Katie Burns and I’m a CRPA-P in the Recovery Department here at CFLR.  It is my own personal mission to strengthen and maintain my community connections in the recovery world and man does this profession help me show case that!!  I am a single mommy to a funny, smart, active 8 year old who I can hardly keep up with but I sure do try!  Since being on my recovery journey I have met the most amazing people who have really helped enhance my new way of life.  But, it’s not always serious.  I’m the class clown.  I enjoy being the reason someone laugh’s today.  I love spontaneous hiking trips, and beach days, really anything outdoors and with my family and friends!  I strive to do better for myself and my son every single day.

My name is Robert Green I actively used for over twenty years of my life.  I lost both of my parents in my teenage years.  I never dealt with my grief correctly with no goals, accomplishments, or achievements I stayed in the misery of my addiction.  Until about almost seven years ago when I decided to seek outpatient treatment.  Which then lead to inpatient treatment.  Then I decided to become a Peer Advocate.  I’ve been enjoying life again with my family and newfound friends.  I previously worked at a local outpatient substance use disorder facility for two and a half years.  I’ve found a love for air plants or Tillandsia, keep walking the canal trails, and focus on eating healthy.  Remember RECOVERY is an ongoing process!  

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action

Center for Family Life holds holiday meal basket giveaway!

UTICA, NY – A joyful mood of gratitude was evident at the Center for Family Life and Recovery (CFLR) holiday meal basket give-a-way. Staff and volunteers collected and packed meal baskets with care for families in need.

A successful multi-site food drive supplemented the baskets with a variety of canned and boxed holiday food items. Special gift cards were included in each basket so that individual families could exercise personal choice at the grocery store to shop for their preferred fresh food perishables, according to their family tastes and dietary needs.

Boxes and baskets were loaded into vehicles at three Mohawk Valley area basket distribution sites set up outside for a COVID-safe distribution. Site locations allowed for a distribution nearest to identified families in need. Some baskets were even hand-delivered to those that could not come out to the event or who did not have transportation.

“Every year staff and volunteers love seeing the smiles on the faces of our clients as they receive their holiday meal baskets,” Cassandra Sheets, CEO, shared, “it really is a very special tradition of our agency and one we greatly enjoy. This year we are especially thankful to brighten the holidays for 38 Mohawk Valley families.”

A special thank you to Officer Harrington and the Utica Police Department for their valuable assistance loading baskets the day of the event.

The CFLR team would like to thank all sponsoring partners of this year’s successful event. Partners include: BNY Mellon – the staff of BNY, Scalzo, Zogby, and Wittig Insurance, Police Benevolent Association of Utica, the Remsen and Rome Rotarians, Parkway Senior Center in Utica, Parkway Center in Verona, Hannaford’s supermarkets, PJ Green, Fit Body Bootcamp in Whitesboro, and the Holland Patent School District. Many other local organizations also participated in the huge food drive, which was wildly successful to help fill baskets this year – THANK YOU!

Food and donations collected locally for this project stays local. There are many ways to get involved with this special annual holiday giving opportunity. Visit https://www.whenthereshelpthereshope.com/thanksgiving to view giving opportunities for the 2022 year.

For more information on Center for Family Life and Recovery, please visit www.whenthereshelpthereshope.com, and the project page at https://www.whenthereshelpthereshope.com/thanksgiving/

Media inquiries can be directed to Cassandra Sheets, CEO. Office:  315-768-2645 Email: CSheets@cflrinc.org

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Posted by Jenn Beach Brillante in CFLR In Action

Our Program Assistants and Office Coordinator!

First of all, I love semi-retirement.  Working since I was 15yrs, following in my mothers’ footsteps.  My mother was a switchboard operator in Cornwall, Canada.  When I started at 15 yrs., I was working at Massena Central High school during the summer as a switchboard operator.  Going forward, working as a secretary, customer service, short order/prep cook, I was working at Hinsdale Hospital, Il.  Then I transferred to Doctors’ Answering Service and worked the switchboard at the hospital.  Was there for 11 years. Moved to North Carolina and worked in a sewing factory making rugs.  I have a few rugs that I made, they are still holding up… lol I loved to travel, from Virginia to Hawaii and in between.  Now my feet stay on the ground.  When my fiancé was here, we did a lot of camping up north (Alex Bay) and down south (Finger Lakes).  Now I am working at CFLR, (8yrs) I love my job.  My boss, Cassandra and all my co-workers are wonderful to work with.  Great experience.  Last of all, stay positive and smile.

Mary

Ginamarie Pizza is a 4th year student at Utica College, double majoring in both nursing and health studies with a minor in human rights advocacy.  She hopes to work in public health and become a sexual assault nurse examiner (S.A.N.E.).  She is a New Jersey native from a large family with four siblings, one dog, one turtle, and the newest addition a Pac Man frog.  In her free time, she enjoys athletics, competing on her college’s lacrosse team, as well as making art of all sorts.  She has been a part of the CFLR team for 2 months and is excited to continue.  She is passionate about social justice and grateful to be part of such an incredible organization.

 

Hello, my name is Dominica Liscio. I am originally from Herkimer, NY. I have been the Office Coordinator here at CFLR for about 8 months and absolutely love it! CFLR is such a great place to work, we are like a big family. I was supposed to get married in September but due to Covid we unfortunately had to postpone. We however, are trying to make light of this crazy time. I love spending time with my fiancé, my friends and my little, long haired Chihuahua.

Posted by Dominica Liscio in CFLR In Action

Center for Family Life and Recovery seeking caring individuals to volunteer with Compeer Program

Center for Family Life and Recovery seeking caring individuals to volunteer with Compeer Program

Utica, New York – The Prevention department of Center for Family Life and Recovery (CFLR) is looking for volunteers for the Compeer Program. The Compeer Program is an international organization that focuses on helping those who are struggling with mental health disorders through the power of friendship and has been offered locally by CFLR for the past 7 years. The program matches both youth and adults with a mental health diagnosis in Oneida and Herkimer counties with caring volunteers who want to help make a positive impact on someone’s life. Serving the Mohawk Valley since the mid-1980s, Compeer continues to be a positive influence on our communities.

The Compeer Program at CFLR has a mission: Promoting good mental health through meaningful friendships. “Friendship is powerful medicine, be a lifeline for someone who is struggling with their mental health today,” says Ashley Miller, Family Peer Advocate with CFLR, who helps to oversee Compeer at CFLR. Also overseeing this program is Francesca Esposito as a Prevention Service Coordinator since early 2021. She says about the program, “Human relationships foster positive and proactive mental health and wellbeing. Our Compeer Program facilitates these lasting and meaningful relationships through friendship. The impact of even the simplest social interaction can have a lasting benefit on individuals in need.”

For Compeer to be as fun and efficient as possible, amazing volunteers are needed. Volunteers are asked to meet a few basic requirements; be over 18 years of age, be able to pass a background check, attend orientation training, and can devote at least four hours each month to their new friend.

Mentoring opportunities include:

  • 1:1 Youth Friendship: Volunteer is matched with a youth in a 1:1 supportive friendship
  • 1:1 Adult Friendship: Volunteer is matched with an adult in a 1:1 supportive friendship
  • E-Buddies: Volunteers communicate with match or individual via email/text/phone calls/video calls/social media

If volunteering interests you, reach out to Ashley Miller at (315) 768-2678 or amiller@clfrinc.org Or, visit the CFLR website at https://www.whenthereshelpthereshope.com/services/prevention-services/share-your-story/

CFLR’s goal is to inspire hope, provide help, promote wellness and transform lives as well as support individuals and families struggling with addiction, mental health, and behavioral issues. The vision of CFLR is to be a leader in creating a world where people have the power to achieve and celebrate recovery. To learn more, visit www.whenthereshelpthereshope.com or call (315) 733-1709

Posted by Cassandra Sheets in CFLR In Action, News